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“Hey, the world is moving so fast!”

Did I open with this line during my last post? 

Often, it is as I find myself ‘checking in’ during self-reflection, I’m confirming whether the direction I’m headed means I am still relevant.

Many (if not all) of us working for ourselves in a remote environment are far more self-aware today than when I first started networking. We’re finding that emotions play an important part in our self-esteem, aren’t we?

Self-awareness affects emotional experience. So does how people focus on managing their emotions. Due to our ability (or inability) to tune in and think consciously about ourselves, our emotions are affected … especially when comparing ourselves to our own personal standards. More so when spending time reflecting on past lives/situations or an uncertain future.

I’ve been working for myself these past twenty-five years. Evaluating my own journey and personal characteristics is something I often observe. That is, when I understand I need it. 

‘Weirdo.’ I hear you utter …

It happens. I think about how my individual traits may be perceived. I accept that I’m not everyone’s favourite(!) … most of the time … and I’m conscious that it’s important to stay authentic to remain relevant.

I also remember what drove me when I first started.

My network community is a tremendous support for my own view of relevance. The business network I belong to are 99% independent business owners. All value the opportunity of togetherness in a world that is far more fractious than, say, five years ago. 

I’d suggest anyone questioning their relevance in today’s changing world first consider who this unique YOU may be? 

Your own character makes you one in a billion. Even before you add the professional ingredients of the vessel/profession you adopt to take you forward. 

Accept that you are unique and so relevant. You are a one-off, a secret ingredient. You offer personal expert value to the supportive community you choose to frequent – those who have already bought into YOU. 

If in doubt, think again whenever you feel the need to ‘check in. Join me …’

People buy from people they know and trust.