Living on the North of England coast, I’m heard often complaining the fact that the sun never seems to linger, there’s often a hint ‘she’s’ on her way at times…
I mean, we have the odd sparkling day and then I’m forced to realise that even the sun needs to take a rest.
I know, we appreciate things a lot more in their rarity.
It’s the same with people don’t you think? Catching up with good friends, spending time with those we haven’t seen for a while, for me, should be a cause for celebration.
I’m lucky in that I have a rich and varied group of ‘friends’ and acquaintances who meet regularly. We’re sharing precious time as we renew professional (and personal) stories. Not everyone can talk about their personal challenges, something I feel is a shame. I hear first-hand that not many head home or back to the office and talk up the meeting of earlier that morning.
By doing just that … our ‘home team’ becomes part of the bigger picture. They learn more about the ‘why. The support network that surrounds the business owner every time he steps up and out to generate interest through engagement.
Business becomes even more personal if we share our stories.
Recently, I heard from an old friend who informed me of the passing of a mutual colleague. Achen was someone who started his business not so long ago and was part of the original Weekly Business, a time when we were meeting in London. I remember Achen as being a likeable, softly spoken professional. One of those who, when we hear them speaking, we lean in to take a minute and listen.
Achen was a family man. I didn’t know until I heard the sad news that he and his wife were parents to three lovely children. I’m sure those kids will remember their father with the fondness I and many others do.
I never met Achen’s wife or family, and it’s times like these I wish I had that opportunity.
I’m reminded of the value of ‘now’ and living in the moment, the importance of listening to the stories of friends through conversation.
Many memories have come out of this moment of sad news . Most important though is the recollection of a man who brought help, support, and happiness to many whenever he walked into the room.
The sun shines longer when we’re spreading the word and talking up prospects.
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